(Warning) Beware of These Kind Of Relationships

As heart-centered women it is in our nature to see the amazing potential in our men. This happens so often when we meet a new potential partner or begin a romantic relationship.

We see his strength, his heart, and his power.
We mentally fill in the gaps of what it would be like if he truly stepped into his greatness and took full responsibility for his life and for his part of the relationship. We see him being that vulnerable, intimate, open partner we know he has access to, deep down.
Unfortunately, we can easily fall for who we want him to be, and what we see possible for him rather than who he truly is, right here, right now.
I’ve witnessed this create so much heartbreak for women, including myself at times.
We fall in love with his potential.  I call these “fantasy relationships.”
In the past, whenever I’d meet a new love interest my head would be immediately flooded with the ideas of who this man could be for me and for my future family. We as women can get so wrapped up in who our men might become, and how amazing life will be when they get there- that we can bypass the truth of who they really are today.
We are all, always growing. I believe when we’re done growing, learning and healing- we’re dead! So it’s not that our men have to be perfect, but our men do need to possess our non-negotiable desired traits in a man, and be willing to continue to grow. Our men need to already have the non-negotiable straights we desire.
Find out what your non-negotiable traits are in a man, and stick to them.
My challenge to you is to make a list of the non-negotiable traits you’re looking for in a partner. Be unapologetic. Even when the thoughts creep in of “there’s no man out there that has all these traits,” keep writing. Steer clear of things like “he needs to be six-foot-tall and have blonde hair and tan skin, with a million dollars in the bank.” Be attached to the content, not the frame my dear. Focus on how you want this man to make you feel.
My invitation to you:
  1. Make a list of the non-negotiable traits you desire in a man
  2. Make a list of how you want your man to make you feel
  3. Enjoy a FREE love call with me to help you create the relationship of your dreams!
It’s a slippery slope to build a relationship off of what you hope your man will someday become.
You have to love your man exactly as he is, right now, or else he isn’t the man for you.
Once you have your non-negotiable traits and ways you want to feel in relationship, you get to use this as compass to guide you on your journey to finding your dream love! Trust that he is out there. You wouldn’t have these desires in your heart if this dream love wasn’t possible for you!
Hope this helps!
As heart-centered women it is in our nature to see the amazing potential in our men. This happens so often when we meet a new potential partner or begin a romantic relationship.
We see his strength, his heart, and his power.
We mentally fill in the gaps of what it would be like if he truly stepped into his greatness and took full responsibility for his life and for his part of the relationship. We see him being that vulnerable, intimate, open partner we know he has access to, deep down.
Unfortunately, we can easily fall for who we want him to be, and what we see possible for him rather than who he truly is, right here, right now.
I’ve witnessed this create so much heartbreak for women, including myself at times.
We fall in love with his potential.  I call these “fantasy relationships.”
In the past, whenever I’d meet a new love interest my head would be immediately flooded with the ideas of who this man could be for me and for my future family. We as women can get so wrapped up in who our men might become, and how amazing life will be when they get there- that we can bypass the truth of who they really are today.
We are all, always growing. I believe when we’re done growing, learning and healing- we’re dead! So it’s not that our men have to be perfect, but our men do need to possess our non-negotiable desired traits in a man, and be willing to continue to grow. Our men need to already have the non-negotiable straights we desire.
Find out what your non-negotiable traits are in a man, and stick to them.
My challenge to you is to make a list of the non-negotiable traits you’re looking for in a partner. Be unapologetic. Even when the thoughts creep in of “there’s no man out there that has all these traits,” keep writing. Steer clear of things like “he needs to be six-foot-tall and have blonde hair and tan skin, with a million dollars in the bank.” Be attached to the content, not the frame my dear. Focus on how you want this man to make you feel.
My invitation to you:
  1. Make a list of the non-negotiable traits you desire in a man
  2. Make a list of how you want your man to make you feel
  3. Enjoy a FREE love call with me to help you create the relationship of your dreams!
It’s a slippery slope to build a relationship off of what you hope your man will someday become.
You have to love your man exactly as he is, right now, or else he isn’t the man for you.
Once you have your non-negotiable traits and ways you want to feel in relationship, you get to use this as compass to guide you on your journey to finding your dream love! Trust that he is out there. You wouldn’t have these desires in your heart if this dream love wasn’t possible for you!
Hope this helps!

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